Mistress Aurora of Western Massachusetts, Massachusetts is a skilled Domina that should be taken seriously by any wannabe slave.
Mistress Aurora Interview
We caught up with Mistress Aurora to find out a little more about this Goddess on your behalf. Let’s find out what She had to say.
Mistress Aurora, would You kindly tell us a little about your background and how you became involved in Domination?
I was born and raised in the South in the USA; I lived in Miami Fla, Ga, Ky, and Virginia, now I live in Western Ma.
I Grew up in foster care and I was abused physically and mentally; as punishment my body was put in a very tormented position which brought me much pain, (at times I will incorporate in my sessions today) My arm was twisted until it broke, so many evil things were bestowed upon me, all of this for 18 yrs of my life. I suffered a great deal of pain both physically and mentally; I have gotten over the pain of the first part of my life, but believe that this painful life style has helped me understand who I am today and how much pain the human body, heart and mind can really take.
I am also a National Champion Fitness and Bodybuilder Champion, dating back in 2004 until 2009. I had to learn to push my mind and body through some of the most painful parts of training! Having to stretch my muscles even while they were torn or having a muscle tear on stage while doing a 1 armed push up; is some of the most painful physical torments that I have ever gone through. Through all of this training and suffering I learned very quickly how much pain the body and mind can suffer and take as well as the abuse I suffered. I have learned how to divert one’s mind from thinking of the pain that he may be in while in session with me; into taking his thoughts somewhere else. I have also suffered from broken hearts, through losing by 1 point for 4 yrs in a row in bodybuilding, can you imagine the heart ache? training like a dog for 1 year only to lose by one point for 4 years in a row? Not many people can! And what about love? The pain from that! People suffer in so many different ways. I quit competitive life style due to all the injuries and that dam consistent dieting LOL! I am still very strong and love to use my strength to get rough with those subs who seek those kinds of sessions. I am also trained in Krav Magra combat, so I love throwing those punches.
Growing up I had always remembered laughing at others as I seen them struggling. Then my mind started drifting into thoughts of what it would be like to inflect pain on others specially men, but never a woman! I guess it was because my mother and I were abused.
So one day I woke up and asked my husband if I could be a dominatrix, he said no at that time because of his career. So after he retired from it I asked again, he said yes this time. So off I went! I sought out a mature Dom In Kentucky and learned under her for about 2 months I learned somethings but not much. She use to tell me all the time that I was so much better than her and wondered how that could be. So, I thought I don’t need her, I can do this on my own, and I did.
I seem to have a natural talent for being in charge and I have a very creative mind. I see my work as art, my subs are the canvas I am the artist. I am a professional photographer by trade so this helps to. I love skin and the human touch! I can bring healing to a subs soul or I can reach so far in and break him down!
Mistress Aurora, what advice would you give to slaves who wish to serve you?
Truly know your heart and your will to serve, be honest with yourself and your Mistress; too often I find that subs desire to serve but fail to follow through. This frustrates me to know end! I am sure to other Mistresses as well. When subs beg to serve me then back out once I start testing their will; all I want to do at this point is give up on them all. I start losing faith in them all! In other words, the bad subs are ruining it for those whom may truly be worthy!
Mistress Aurora, will you work from a script that someone brings to you when they meet with you?
Hell no! Just give me an idea as to what you desire. The art and play scene comes from my creative thoughts.
Mistress, what are your favourite types of session?
Glad you asked! I love all forms of play and I am quite good at most all that I do. My favorite is rape the pig or slut! I love to get rough with those Piggy’s/Sluts! I love dressing up like an officer of the law and performing an interrogation process for rape or murder. Once I have determined their crimes, punishing them is where my joy comes from. I love ball busting, Corp Punishment, sensual tease and denial, physical torment and physiological torment sessions.
Mistress, do you attend any clubs relating to BDSM/Fetish lifestyle?
Mistress, what do you prefer to wear during sessions?
Skirts, heels, boots, fishnets, wet look outfits. I have it all though! I have latex, leather. I hate wearing latex because it gets me so hot and sweaty! I will accommodate my subs if they ask for something special.
Mistress, please could you describe your style of dominance?
I prefer a gentle style of dominance, I am unbend-able, I am stern, I am demanding and physically strong. I don’t believe that you have to be a screamer or some psycho to get a sub to comply with your demands! But God help you if you cross me in any way I deem unworthy, all I need is one Brat or Bitch to push the wrong button! I will not hesitate to grab you by your throat put you up against the wall and have my way with your skin.
Mistress Aurora, do you also offer other services such as phone domination, email/online, training?
Mistress Aurora, what are the things You most like and dislike in a slave?
I love when a sub humbles himself before me. I can tell those whom have been trained well and those whom have not. When you see a sub not even make eye contact with you and looks to the floor as he should, then he is well trained. I love when a sub gets on his hands and knees the minute I open my door to him and starts kissing my feet and tells me how beautiful I am and also thanks me for allowing him to serve. I dislike when a sub starts feasting his eyes upon my beauty without granted permission. Most are not well trained and are looking for a quick fix and are still green!
I adore a sub that will be here to do anything I ask of him without question; weather it is helping me around my home or helping to protect me, or helping me with other sessions. I love a sub that is willing to please me in any way I want or need to be pleased.
My dislikes: Those whom promise to serve and when you need them they are nowhere to be found. Those whom promise to buy me things and don’t! I hate when a sub builds me things and never finish it! Those whom ask to be used in sessions, but once I start to use them, they crumble. I use to seek subs through a sub application process on my website, but had to finally remove the application off my site because none were worthy. I found myself wasting my precious time! Time is money in our Pro BDSM world.
Mistress Aurora, what are Your favorite gifts from a slave?
Gifts off my wish list for the dungeon and shoes for me or my sissy boys
Mistress Aurora, what advice would you give to a novice who has never visited a Mistress before?
Stay away from those hotel Mistresses whom are in their early 20yrs! They tend to think they are Doms because they can hold a whip and they look hot in something cute. I have heard some horrible stories from subs, from lack of interest in the subs needs to even getting robbed. Don’t be drawn to a mistress who advertise lower rates, more than likely you will have a very bad experience, this could damage you for life and you may never return to seek services, not even from a pro dom. You need a true professional Dominatrix! Seek out Doms whom have been around for years; stay away from the hard core Mistresses that advertise heavy leather, rubber, encasement, hangings, heavy breath play and psychological trauma, stay away from those type of sessions. As a beginner look for Doms that offer gentle, or sensual domination, but yet stern. Look may also want to look for Doms with websites and Doms that have been well reviewed.
I have tons of beginners come to me! From 22 years of age to 80 yrs of age. I am told by many that there is something radiating from my eyes through my pictures; then that my website is very inviting and warm, it makes them feel safe and that they can trust me. Now the picture I provided for this post I look very stern, that is my serious look, go to my site and look at all pictures!
Look for testimonials posted on her site from her subs, (word to the wise) the word sub does not mean a man or women who has a permanent positioned with in her dungeon! A sub can be a client who had just one or a few amazing sessions with her! It helps if there is more than one testimonial. Look at other sites that advertise Mistresses, and read reviews that may be posted there about the Mistress from others before you. One other thing I want to share with you as well! Just because a Mistress was in the porn industry DOES NOT MEAN SHE WILL BE A GREAT MISTRESS! Don’t be fooled by the hype of her media coverage, or web presence or tons of videos!!
Take your time in finding the right Mistress for your first time; this can be a very freighting experience for you as you walk through her dungeon, and place your skin in her hands. I have had many new subs study my site for at least 1 yr before finally taking that first step to see me, and still quiver in my presence. You have to feel safe this is most important! Also, stay always from high crime areas! Always comply with your mistresses’ application process because she needs to feel safe! Some of us have families and are not into this lifestyle, also just because someone says that they are a lifestyle Dom does not mean that they are good at their craft. Seek mature Doms we tend to have tons of knowledge and we are trained in are craft. Mainly because we have had many experiences that we can draw from! WOW this was a mouthful of good advice!
Mistress Aurora, do You own any 24/7 slaves?
Mistress Aurora, what about those slaves looking for a long term serious commitment of slavery to You. What would be Your requirements of such a slave?
I am not looking for this
How do you make use of Social Media or is it something you don’t have time for?
I only use fetlife, I found that the others like twitter, and Instagram were a big waste of my time and brought me no business. I only advertise in Back page, and I have some profiles on a few others.
Mistress may You please tell us how we may obtain more details about you and how to serve you?
Please visit my website here at https://mistress-aurora-the-chastiser.com/home or call 706-940- BDSM in the USA
What angers you Mistress while working with a subs
I hate liars, and I like and dislike brats. A brat gives me fuel for my anger which makes it more fun for me! Also, if I catch a sub in a lie while we are together you will fell my wrath. I dislike over talkers and whiners. Here is another thing that pisses me off! Those who tell me they are a 10 on the pain scale or a masochist; but yet cannot handle the pain! This pissed me off to know ends. Here’s another request that I get a lot! Mistress please make my balls swell up and bruised them, I want you to bust them up Mistress! Please! let’s get real here! I am not going to fuck you up for life! You may want a family some day!
Even though I have a gentle style to me, once I am mentally geared up to induce a strict harsh punishment to you; if you can’t follow through on your end of the deal you have now put yourself in danger and have pissed me off! If Mistress is given the chance to inflect pain, I am all in because I love the hard core subs to. I just don’t get many of you so I look forward to this type of session! Maybe it’s because my website is to inviting and warm.
Even though I can be gentle and stern I can still bring the burn, the heat, the pain or desire you seek. I have been told that most mistresses are afraid to bring it, I am not! I will beat you black and blue if this is what you seek. Just be honest in your desires with me!
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