Miss Mae Ling of Los Angeles took a little time out of her super busy schedule to answer a few questions. Enjoy this interview with Miss Mae Ling and find out more about her from her website (details below) and her profile at Sadistic Mistress.
Miss Mae Ling of Los Angeles
Sadistic Mistress: Would You kindly tell us a little about your background and how you became involved in Domination?
Miss Mae Ling: Starting it off heavy with a trigger warning! My introduction to sex was being raped at the age of 15. From age 16-17 Iwas held hostage and sexually assaulted by a family friend. Years of therapy later, I found BDSM and kink through a rope workshop. From there I was extremely curious to know more about anything and everything about it. The person who tied me there took me to a play party at a dungeon and I was like a kid in a candy store. It’s helped me heal and now I’m surrounded by supportive and adoring men who have shown me that there is so much more than pain. This was 9 years ago and I lived the lifestyle for 5 years until I realized I’d rather work for myself and so I started my own business as a professional.
Sadistic Mistress: Will you work from a script that someone brings to you when they meet with you?
Miss Mae Ling: I tried this once and it totally was a flop! I’m not an actress playing a role in your fantasy. I pride myself in taking your fantasy into consideration and twisting it for my own pleasure. When I have fun, that’s when it’s truly a fun time for everyone involved. However, I do enjoy creating custom clips where scripts are helpful.
Sadistic Mistress: What are your favorite types of sessions?
Miss Mae Ling: Each one is so unique and person specific. I have had the most fun with financial domination combined with diaper and/or ball busting. Sprinkle in some discreet public play and that makes for a wonderful day.
Sadistic Mistress: Do you attend any clubs relating to BDSM/Fetish lifestyle?
Miss Mae Ling: Used to quite a bit, but now I prefer one on one so I can focus my energy. Sometimes the energy is so overwhelming in itself that we become a party in itself.
Sadistic Mistress: What do you prefer to wear during sessions and what do most subs prefer to see you wear?
Miss Mae Ling: My go to is a simple black bodysuit or a schoolgirl outfit. A lot of my subs know that it’s about my pleasure ultimately and so they recommend me playing in something comfortable and trust that it is up to my own interpretation. I’ve sessioned in a onesie before and that was a blast!
Sadistic Mistress: How would you describe your style of dominance?
Miss Mae Ling: Silly, fun, adorable, cute with a kick of spiciness. The cheerleader bully with a side of Asian mom intensity. I enjoy being playful, life is too serious. Let’s have more fun in it. Most of my subs ask if I perform stand up comedy or something because we’re always laughing. Tears of joy, fun and some pain make a great cocktail.
Sadistic Mistress: Do you also offer other services such as phone domination, email/online, training?
Miss Mae Ling: I do! Phone through SextPanther. Online through LoyalFans. Of course that is until these platforms change on us and I’ll switch over to the next one again.
Sadistic Mistress: What song do you listen to that makes you feel strong?
Miss Mae Ling: Do It For Me by Rosenfeld has been one that’s been coursing through my veins lately.
Sadistic Mistress: What are Your favorite gifts from a slave?
Miss Mae Ling: Money! Honestly, I invest most of my money so the gift of a comfortable retirement is the best thing anyone can give a sex worker. It allows me the true power and freedom to do whatever I want. Whereas other gives are limited to certain use cases. If you’re a real slave, you’d sacrifice to ensure she has a better and brighter future.
Sadistic Mistress: What advice would you give to a novice who has never visited a Mistress before?
Miss Mae Ling: That tightness in your chest, the shallow breathing, the thoughts of doubt – is this even truly what you want to do? Shhh, if you’ve done your research thoroughly and you have this feeling you can’t subside, then live your life! You’ll never know until you do it and even then, it might not be the right person, right moment in your life, or even the right day. Life is too short to live in a world of what ifs. If it calls to you, it’s best to listen to it.
Sadistic Mistress: Do You own any 24/7 slaves?
Miss Mae Ling: I do! This isn’t to say, I live with them and control every waking breath they take. Reality check here, gonna burst your bubble, but it’s ok, think of it like popping a cherry. I travel a great deal and there’s no way someone can keep up with my life. How would one financially be able to support this unless you’re filthy rich and now want to live as a servant. Instead, I have slaves who are on limited time constraints when we’re together. Days, weeks or months – there’s always a cap on it because even I need a break controlling others. I’m actually sitting in solitude writing answering these questions now in Bali while it’s raining, cleansing my soul so I can continue what I love doing.
Sadistic Mistress: How do you make use of Social Media or is it something you don’t have time for?
Miss Mae Ling: Social media, a love/hate relationship. Mostly as a marketing platform but also a way to keep connected with friends and coworkers. Great for a source of inspiration too, but nothing beats going out there and truly experiencing it rather than seeing it through a screen.
Sadistic Mistress: How can someone find more details about you and how to serve you?
Miss Mae Ling You can find everything on my website www.missmaeling.com.
